Muli's script already implements this:
https://www.warlight.net/Forum/106092-tidy-up-dashboard-2

i recommend using it (as a player) or integrating it into warlight functionality (as a developer)

to close this issue and free up peoples votes

would be very server consuming, I myself have the warlight multiplayer menu almost allways in the backrground, ready for when i have time.

thoug it could be a member option, whit an ability to turn it off.

If this is implemented, it'd be nice to have an option to turn it off. I often keep Warlight open in a background tab for those times when I have few spare minutes to play, and that's fine as long as it's not doing anything. But if it's constantly refreshing and slowing my browser down, that would not be fun. (Especially if it's combined with the who's-online idea, since it would show me as constantly online even though I'm really not.)

The hard part about implementing this is the server resources. Servers are expensive, and the My Games query is fairly intensive to run. If it auto-refreshed, if anyone left their page up all day or overnight (as many people do), it would be very expensive. That means in order to add an auto-refresh, there needs to be additional caching or a re-architecture that makes this query less intensive to run. Hopefully I'll get to it one day - I just wanted to drop this note to explain why this item isn't a quick-fix.

Also, a tone when something appears.